Vivian was 9 months old yesterday.
Pretty soon our wee Vivian will be outside of me for as long as she was inside of me and I can’t get my head wrapped around that. I can still remember what it was like to be pregnant and so happy. I am happy most days now but about different things than I anticipated being happy about. Different achievements than those I thought I would be celebrating at this time.
It seems like so much has happened in the 2 weeks between blog posts, I don’t know where to begin! Apologies in advance for the novel!
When I last posted we were gearing up to go to her next pediatrician appointment. So those updates first: Vivian is now over 7kg at 7.33kg, which puts her at the 20th percentile for weight. For you Americans, that’s just over 16lbs. And she had gained another inch and a bit (around 3cm), which would be why everyone we see keeps telling us how ‘long’ she’s getting!
The pediatrician wasn’t concerned about her weight, so we are to keep on with the breast milk for now and don’t have to worry about fortifying it. We have been very lucky to not have run out of donor milk. The right amounts keep coming in; small donations here and there have been keeping us going. Thank you to our wonderful, wonderful donors. You women are so amazing.
And the doctor doesn’t want to see us again for 3 months! That’s the biggest gap yet between appointments. Hurray! I told her to please not take any offense, but I was so overjoyed at that news.
The only thing of concern that she mentioned is Vivian’s head has still had minimal growth. I think she’s in the first percentile for head circumference now.
The pediatrician asked how Vivian’s ophthalmologist appointment went, which we thought went well. I’m concerned now that the tests that the doctor did didn’t really investigate whether Vivian has CVI.. The more I read about it, and the signs that kids who have it show, the more concerned I am that Vivian does have it. I have requested a follow-up sooner than 6 months away with the ophthalmologist because of this.
We picked up Vivian’s glasses last week and she absolutely hates them. With a passion. Every time we put them on she freaks out, because they’re on a band that goes around her head. First she freaks out because you’re touching the back of her head with the band, then she freaks out as soon as you slide them down on her face. Then she freaks out when she realizes things look different. There was a lot of freaking out and eyes squeezed shut over the past week. She would only tolerate them on for maybe 5 minutes at a time. At one point the little lenses were fogging up because her face was too warm and they’re so close to her eyes.
But today, she watched a Baby Einstein video (yes, we know screen time should be limited for babies. We used to just play it for her while she was in her bouncer because she liked the songs on it) and she watched pretty much the whole thing with her glasses on. And she didn’t mind when I readjusted them a few times, which was shocking. She also picked up a toy when her hand hit it and actually looked at it,ever so briefly, which is amazing.
And Dad even got smiles out of her with them on.
Since I last posted, Vivian has also gotten her new hearing aid molds! They are ‘candy apple green’ and are so much bigger than her last pair; you can really see how much her ear canals grew during the holidays. They’ve also been turned up to 100% now, so Vivian has as close to normal hearing as we can get with them in.
While we’re on the topic of hearing, one of Vivian’s favorite things to listen to at the moment is the Laura Veirs “Tumble Bee” album that an anonymous gifter sent us, along with an awesome Busy Bee bib with soft purple backing that Vivian loves. Ben and I really enjoy listening to this album as well and are often singing the songs to Vivian. She always smiles as soon as we start singing a familiar song, which is such a wonderful thing to see. Whoever you are, thank you very much! Vivian loves both items and so do we :)
On the therapy side of things: we were loaned the Lackey Squiggle Early Activity System to try out for a week to see if we wanted one ordered for Vivian. It is pretty awesome and we believe it will be really helpful for Vivian to learn how to bear weight on her hands, elbows, and knees; how to use her hands more; and how to sit up.
We were also given a ‘corner chair’ which we can strap Vivian into (loosely) which will help her learn how to sit up too. It’s a high-backed wooden chair with slight sides, and no legs. A table that goes with it was dropped off today and Vivian really took to banging on it with her hands and picking up toys to bang on the table, now that her toys are within easy reach.
We are still working on rolling front to back, and back to front to the left, since Vivian is stronger in her left side and doesn’t like to bear as much weight on the right arm. She has also started bearing weight on her feet if you stand her up, which is exciting. She loves to play a jumping game where we slowly make her jump up and down while singing, “Vivian is jumping, jumping, jumping! Vivian is jumping, just like that!” and she gets really excited. I’ll have to try to get it on video so you can hear her squealing with laughter.
I would say she might actually get to use a jolly jumper soon, if she keeps showing improvement there. I never thought she would ever be able to have fun in one of those.
As far as seizures go, we haven’t seen any spasms, and Vivian has only had a few suspicious movements that do seem like an exaggerated moro reflex startle. If I move very slowly during her first nappy change, they don’t happen at all, so they may not be related to infantile spasms at all. If this is the case, it’s been almost 6 months since her last cluster, which is fantastic!
It’s hard to believe in three months she’ll be a year old. It does go so fast.