Busy spring is busy

Just when I think I’ve settled into a nice routine, another big change happens.  There’s no way I could’ve done the Ultimate Blog Challenge this month.  Kudos to those of you who are!  And to those of you preparing to do NaNoWriMo.

No more working from home on the weekends soon.  I’ll be working a more solid Monday-Friday.  No more days off in the middle of the week that were so handy for running errands!  I have never had weekends off for any extended period of time, so it will be different.

Ben’s job has had a major delay that means he has the next 2-3 weeks off.  Although we could really use the money, part of me is sort of happy about that, because I’ll have more home-cooked meals made by his hands.  I enjoy cooking, but I am a firm believer that things taste better when someone else cooks for me.    He’ll have more time to bake new healthy treats for us.  I keep meaning to post a bran muffin recipe that he’s been making every two weeks or so.  Must do that this week sometime.

Weeds, weeds, everywhere!Garden updates:  I’ve discovered that this place is heaven for weeds.  There are thousands of weeds sprouting in that veggie bed…I’m going to spend the next year picking them out.  It’s horrible.  I’m guessing this is because the landlord just turned the soil over before we moved in.  I really don’t know.  I never had so many weeds to get rid of in Christchurch at either house we lived in.

My arch-enemy cleavers is here as well, smiling at me from beneath the camellias and mandarin bush out front. Ok, I’ll stop grumbling now!

I planted some peas and beans in the garden bed about 10 days ago, and remember dreading the weather shortly after that.  So much rain in the past week and a half — some really torrential downpours — I thought for sure the peas and beans wouldn’t sprout due to rot or being washed out.  As I was glaring at the weeds today, I spied them pushing through the soil, so I’m very happy about that!  Will need to get some twine to make a trellis for them soon.

Growing cherries on the treeI’m fairly sure the lovely flowering trees on this property are cherry trees now.  Still not sure if they are eating-cherries or not, though!  They are still beautiful, even without their flowers, but they add to the weeds too.  Hundreds of cherry seedlings beneath the trees to weed out…it’s going to take me two weekends to get all the weeding done around here!   Not grumbling again, I swear.  I’m sure it’ll be good exercise.

And on the topic of exercise, I’ve managed to lose 12 pounds since August.  I’m feeling really good about that.  Ben and I joined a gym and for the first time I have a regular exercise commitment to myself.  I really enjoy Ben being my work-out buddy and I think having him involved is the difference this time around!  While he was working he was too tired to go, so I have been by myself quite a few times.  I am down a pants size and I can finally see my collarbone again.  Another thing I’m happy about.

Taking time to note these positives is what keeps me motivated!  Only 38 pounds to go to reach my long-term goal.

Have you made any goals lately?  Reached any goals lately? Let me know!

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Pushing past challenges & finding joy

Progress isn’t always easy, as I’m sure you know.  Sometimes the most satisfying type of progress is the kind you have to work at.  The kind that puts you outside of your comfort zone.

You might find you have to grow a bit in order to stop feeling overwhelmed.  Push past the discomfort and fear of failure and make things happen.

I’ve discovered that’s what’s happened to me over the winter months.  It was so easy to get overwhelmed with the move, a new rent rate, new city, new neighborhood.

A new budget to make my pay go further while Ben looked for a job.  Having to make sure I actually have a packed lunch and snack, instead of wandering into the kitchen while working from home.

A new morning routine to make sure I’m up and on the early train in to work in a new office environment.  New commute costs.  New car costs (we’ve never had a car while I’ve been in New Zealand).

On top of all that I’m certain that I suffer from SAD — seasonal affective disorder, so I felt really crappy for a lot of this time, and was very tense, which didn’t help my marriage any.  Ben and I fought a lot during the first few weeks we were here.  I think most of it was the stress from everything being so different, and all the adjustments we were having to make.  All of these new things to adjust to and new challenges to push past at once where a lot for us to take in.

I realize that with those new challenges came some amazing rewards to enjoy.

A new house to make into a home.   A new garden with new secrets and new plants to discover.  New sounds to enjoy as I work in the garden.

I’d never had the privilege of hearing a tui in person before moving up here. If you’ve never heard one before, you should check out this video of a tui singing:

On a quiet night with a gentle breeze, I can hear the waves crashing nearby.  It’s a wonderfully calming sound, and I hadn’t realized I actually missed living near the ocean.  It felt a bit like coming home when we moved here.

Ben really loves the area we moved to, and it makes me really happy that he does.  If he hated it I would feel horrible, because we moved here for my job.  He has luckily found some temporary work on a construction site not too far away, where a retirement village is being built.   I’m hopeful that he’ll find something he really enjoys soon, as I know it’s not what he really would like to do for work.

Spring has definitely given me a different outlook on everything.  More sunlight hours means more time for me to get things done.  The sun also helps me not feel so overwhelmed by things that would seem insurmountable during the dark & dreary months of winter.   I feel much happier about all the changes we’ve made now that things have settled down and we’re able to actually take time and enjoy the little things.

Do you ever notice you feel down or in a bit of a rut during winter months only to have the sun help you break through it all come spring?

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