Waiting for the [pee to] Fall

Hey folks!

I know it’s been ages.

Like, months, even.

I do feel bad.

But I got married! It was really nice and small, with only Ben’s family here and some family and friends watching on a live stream on the net.

And then it rained a lot, so not a lot of gardening took place.  Lots of green tomatoes still back when I got married.

It’s a bit chilly out now, and the tomatoes have finally ripened!  Not enough to make chutney or homemade tomato sauce out of, but they were (are) delicious.

The tomatoes in my garden bed didn’t do as well as the ones in the two big pots on the side of the house.  I’m not sure exactly why!  None of them were as amazing as the ones I grew last year, and I can only guess that’s because last year I had a turtle tank and a goldfish tank that I was doing water changes on weekly, and the tank water that was so high in nitrates went right into my garden…

I guess I need to get another fish tank for awesome tomatoes!

I need to get out into the garden and pull up all the tomato plants and cut back my herbs.  The flat-leaf parsley is doing extremely well! And the oregano and thyme, too.

My spring onions are finally ready (most of them) and I dug out all the carrots weeks ago.  They were beautiful and yummy.

I guess Fall is finally here.

The Fall I’m actually waiting for tonight is pee fall.  Kitty pee, to be exact.

Leon had something going on with his urinary tract about a month ago and the vet put it down to stress, because the Monday after our lovely wedding, we had two weeks of painting happening in the house, and the last two days of that were extremely noisy and we had to lock the kitties into the office with us as things were happening and folks were in and out of the house all day.

The week after all that, I took him to the vet because I noticed him straining a lot and not much coming out, him licking himself a lot after litter box trips, and then a speck of blood on his fur.  He waited all day at the vet’s office to go to the bathroom, and when he finally did, they didn’t get a very good sample.

They sent him home originally with pain meds (anti-inflams) and he seemed fine after about five days on those, so I stopped them.  But he’s had blood in his urine since then, it seems.  The clumping litter we use has specks of red in it when he’s used it.

Today I called and they suggested instead of brining him in that I try to get a sample of urine from him at home so it would be less stressful, and Ben came home with a little baggie of polystyrene balls (the kind you put in bean bags),  a syringe, and a cup.  The idea is you put the balls in a very clean litter box and the cat will go in it, you extract the urine with the syringe and put it in the cup.

I’m not sure what kind of cats the vet’s had, but it doesn’t seem like Leon will go.  Plus, trying to keep him confined to one room all day and without Damara in the room (she wants to go in the litter box with the balls), has been hell.  I’m just about ready to give up and put the regular kitty litter boxes back the way they were, and take him into the vet tomorrow.

So yep. That’s my night! Waiting for the pee to fall.  You can sing this to the tune of Waiting for a Star to Fall by Boy Meets Girl

How are you all doing? How are your gardens? Your pets?  For most of you it’s Spring now! You must be excited! :)

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Wedding (not tomato) season

Well!  I picked a really bad year to start a blog about gardening (amongst other things).  This summer has been really crappy weather-wise, at least for tomatoes, which was supposed to be my bumper crop this year!

It’s (again) been a while since I posted.  And I don’t feel horribly bad about that (sorry!).  I’ve  fallen behind on reading all the awesome blogs I follow, but I’m slowly catching up!  I blame the annual leave I took in January.  Blogging has been an outlet for me, and when I took time off, I didn’t need to say as much because I guess I had more time to do other things?  Plus, the weather has still been really…not summery, so my garden (sadly) is not as awesome as I thought it would be, hence the lack of garden updates.

I’m on annual leave again!  And I’m getting married next Saturday.  Surprise surprise!

By Ícaro Moreno Ramos (Wedding Photography) [CC-BY-2.0 (www.creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

By Ícaro Moreno Ramos (Wedding Photography) via Wikimedia Commons

I do love the idea of being engaged, but Ben and I have been together 7+ years.  I really don’t see the point in a long engagement, or a big wedding, so I looked at the calendar and picked a day that I would like to celebrate for the rest of my life.  The 3rd of the 3rd sounded awesome, and it’ll definitely be easy for Ben to remember (jokes, I swear).   Plus, it’s half way between my birthday and Ben’s birthday, and if you include valentine’s day being a week and a half before my birthday, I’ve successfully wrangled us a month of celebrating!  I’m pretty satisfied about that! :) Not that we really do Valentine’s Day, in a commercial sense.

I’ve also turned 30 since the last time I posted.  Being 30 doesn’t feel much different from 29, but that combined with getting married soon has made me miss my family a lot.  Especially my mom.  I always thought she’d be here for this, but life doesn’t always work out the way you thought it would.

I know some folks might be wondering about our wedding plans — there really aren’t many.  We’re having a private ceremony at home with a celebrant and Ben’s parents as our witnesses.  Afterwards, I think Ben and I will just enjoy our wedding day together.  No reception.  We don’t really know heaps of people and Ben’s a fairly private person, so I think it would be awkward to have a lot of people over when we really just want to be married, for us.  I’m hoping our friends will understand that and not be offended that they’re not getting invited to a reception. We’re not even doing a wedding cake (neither of us are crazy about cake).  We thought about having a barbecue, but I’m not really sure we’ll even do that.

By Johnnie Allen [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

Joe Falcon and Cléoma Falcon on their wedding day April 27th, 1932

Having spent the last few weeks looking at wedding stuff, it really amazes me.  The money there spent in the wedding market is unbelievable.  I can’t imagine spending thousands of dollars on a wedding. Many of the Western wedding traditions as we know them didn’t really exist until the last century, honestly, not a lot of it appeals to me.  Don’t get me wrong — I’ve been to a few weddings and they’ve been really beautiful.  They’re just not for me.

I wasn’t keen on the idea of wearing a dress, as I’m not really a dress (or skirt) kind of person, but I know Ben really would love to see me in a dress, so I managed to find one on my birthday.  It wasn’t an easy feat considering most of the stores out there don’t even carry my size (NZ 18).  It’s not a traditional wedding dress because it’s royal blue, but it fits me well, and I feel beautiful when I wear it.

I want to find some cheap live flowers (white and purple maybe?)  to plant in my tire planters (which have remained bare after I pulled out the nemophilias), but that’s about all the decorating I’m doing.  We’re still saving for a car.  The highlight of my birthday (after finding my dress) was buying a beautiful kaftan top for $5 when it was originally $60.  I don’t want to blow money on dead flowers, however pretty they are.  At least with live flowers we can enjoy them for a few weeks after the wedding!

Call me crazy if you want (a few people I know seem were flabbergasted by me not really wanting to get a dress), but I’m really happy about it all.  That’s what matters, right?

Have you ever gone the non-traditional route with something important?

January 2012 Bloom Day

It’s the 15th!  For some folks, it’s pay-day.  For me, it’s Garden Bloggers’ Bloom Day, kindly hosted by Carol at May Dreams Gardens :)

This is the most exciting Bloom Day I’ve ever experienced!

Some things are coming to an end in the raised garden beds — the peas look like they’re about done, and the marigolds are being heavily deadheaded, but other things are still on the up and go.  It’s been pretty warm here (for New Zealand, anyway) so trying to keep on top of the watering with the water restrictions we’ve got in Christchurch have been hard on everyone.

Fiery marigolds

More marigolds

Lemon blooms

The new lemon tree Ben’s parents gave me has so many blooms on it! They smell so good!  I’m not sure whether to leave them or to pinch them off though.  There are so many, and it already has fruit as well.

Meyer lemons

My coriander’s going to seed! Will plant some more shortly.  It’s so easy to grow, and even easier to eat! :)

I spotted the first flower on my capsicums!  Exciting.  I wonder what kind it will be — I ordered a ‘rainbow mix’ of tomatoes and capsicums.

I know he’s not a bloom, but I thought he was pretty, so Sir Jumpsalot gets to be in this post.  I thought he was going to jump on me several times — he kept following my movements and then turning towards me lol.

Some kind of cute bug in a rose! :) Some weird things have been popping up in Ms. Chameleon’s foliage lately…

And that’s why today has been so exciting! :) Ben finally asked me to marry him.  Or in his words, “make it official,” because he’s considered me his wife for quite some time already.

What’s blooming in your garden (or life)?

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